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Shopping/Fashion
Want to dress like me? How unoriginal. Well, I'll list some places where to get some stuff. It may be a little expensive, though. Also, as much as you pine for something, that store might not ship to your filthy forgiener being.
EGL / EGL community sales Before you even go on to shopping, stop by here. They have all the answers to your questions. Oh, I suggest you get rid of the mentality that your friends think you're always the greatest or "kawaii." Yes, they will rip you a new one with the power of honesty and I find it entertaining when people fuck up badly. Oh, you can buy clothes here, too.
Lolitafashion.org Okay, don't want to give up the fact that you're oh so special? Fine. Go here and maybe you won't fuck up.
Holy shit, this is a huge list! Oh look, those terrible elitists did all the work of finding stores for you! How kind of them.